Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Veterans Day: More than I Deserve


In 1975, I turned 18. The Vietnam War was pretty much over, as much as any war can be "over" considering the inevitable damage they do to everyone and everything around them. Despite all that, I still thought I wanted to enlist. I wanted to "see the world" as the Navy boys say. I thought it would be an opportunity to "expand my horizons" or "man up" or whatever glib expression that was fashionable at the time. I had no idea what kind of hell I was considering for myself. 
My Dad lived that hellish life for too many months. And perhaps yours did too. But, the generation of our fathers went to war, protected you and me and, by the way, considered it an honor to do so. Many of them died physically - and many died emotionally - from the battles of those war torn regions where they made their beds each miserable night (when they could).

At their great cost I live with freedom in this country today.  Thanks the sweat and blood of my father and yours, I don’t listen for incoming mortar rounds each night. Perhaps it was your mother, or maybe your grandfather, uncle, aunt, brother or sister that gave of themselves for our country. Regardless, remember them this Veterans Day. Honor Veterans Day by honoring those that have given more than you or I can possibly imagine...and certainly more than we deserve.

(Reposted and edited from my May 29, 2012 Facebook Note)

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Forty Something

There's something magical about the number 40.

Take the Bible, for example.  The number 40 is used 146 times in Scripture. (I would say that I've counted all of them...but then, that would be a lie and I don't think lies score well on my Heavenly Report Card). In one example during "Noah's Nautical Adventure" it rained for 40 days and nights. Noah and family had to wait even longer for dry land to reappear, all while aboard a boat full of wet animals and cranky relatives. (And you thought your family vacations were bad?).  And of course there was the episode when Moses took the entire nation of whining Israelites out to the desert for a 40 year land survey. Even Jesus Himself fasted for 40 days before playing 20 questions with the Devil. So, let's assume that the number 40 means something important!

In our case, the number 40 has been a bit of an important journey as well. Many of our Class of 1975 are now parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts - and perhaps some are divorced and single again (or married again and parents again).  It's hard to believe that the kids in Mr. Ashcraft's 6th grade class (left frame) are now in their 50s (except me...I stopped at age 39).  Regardless, we've all got 40 years of personal journeys to tell, 40 years fraught with all the trials, tribulations, joys and celebrations that life brings.  Again, the number 40 means something special!

Next year, Class of 1975, we will celebrate our 40th reunion! Just think: 40 years ago we had no internet, no Facebook, no Twitter - and no wireless phone bills. I'm not even sure we had Cable TV - at least not at my house! (Yes, it's true kids: we were all Trogladites).

I look forward to seeing you all at Rison in 2015 - at some currently-not-determined location. The old high school is gone, 'tis true, but the memories remain locked in time.

Start making plans to return to Rison next year!

Cheers,
Ken (ny) Tillman